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NOTES FROM GRIEF


A First Look Guide: Preparing a Grieving Child for the Holidays Ahead
The anticipation of the holidays can be harder than the days themselves. This first look guide helps you plan ahead with your grieving child — what to keep, change, skip, and remember.
34 minutes ago3 min read


What If a Grieving Child Does Not Want to Talk?
Some children process grief through conversation. Others don't want to talk about it at all, and that's a valid way to grieve too. Here's how to support a quieter griever.
Aug 112 min read


Supporting Siblings Who Grieve Differently
Two siblings, grieving the same death, can look like they're having entirely different experiences. Here's why that's normal, and how to support each child without comparing them.
Aug 112 min read


Reassure Child Without Overpromising: How to Reassure a Child Without Making Promises You Cannot Keep
"Everything will be fine" feels kind in the moment, but it can backfire later. Here's how to offer real comfort to a grieving or worried child without promising outcomes you can't control.
Aug 92 min read


When Someone Is Absent but Still Alive: Helping a Child Understand Ambiguous Loss
Not every loss a child experiences involves a death. Ambiguous loss — when someone is physically absent but still alive, or present but changed — is real grief, and it deserves real support.
Aug 92 min read


Helping a Child Grieve After a Major Move or School Change
Losing a home, a school, or a neighborhood can feel like a genuine loss to a child, even when the move is a good decision for the family. Here's how to help them grieve it well.
Aug 92 min read


When a Parent or Sibling Is Seriously Ill: Supporting a Child
A parent's or sibling's serious illness reshapes a child's whole world, often quietly. Here's how to support a child through it without asking them to carry more than their share.
Aug 92 min read


Grief Isn't Just About Death: Divorce and Big Family Changes
How to support children grieving a divorce or major family change, naming the loss, easing self-blame, and navigating ongoing transitions.
Aug 52 min read
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